[LFG][5E][21+][LGBTQIA+] 3 Players Looking for DM

Hello! We are a group of queer (two women one nonbinary) friends in our 20s in search of a DM that is interested in running a story driven, long term campaign. We have been struggling to find a DM who is both inclusive and collaborative. We are all story driven and active players who enjoy both the roleplay and combat aspects of the game and want a DM who is willing to collaborate to make a campaign where everyone feels heard and can have fun playing and DMing together. As far as our backgrounds involving the game go, one of us has experience DMing and all of us have experience playing in many campaigns with one-shots lined up for each of us to GM for if that would also interest you in possibly joining. We would be playing through discord and whatever choice of website or program you'd prefer. We are seeking a DM so we can finally all play together on the same side of the table so if you feel you fit the fun and collaborative vibes, feel free to message if interested so we can do a meet and greet to see if it's a good fit!

Would you guys be willing to play something besides D+D by chance?

I'd be interested if you'd be willing to drop all the exclusionary labels and just come as players.  Because lots of different types of people from all over the world can join the game. And i'm not interested in excluding anyone because you don't like what they eat, or drive, or watch.

What you're looking for is an echo chamber. Not a tabletop game. I can see why you've been struggling to find a DM.

Wow, Billy and Kaiser, you are both very confused and also off-topic. For people who don't have the privilege of taking inclusion for granted, making sure the people they play with are not bigoted is important and relevant. If you see that as the problem, you are part of the problem.  The bar was touching the ground, yet both of you managed to crawl under it anyway.

Tuo said: Wow, Billy and Kaiser, you are both very confused and also off-topic. For people who don't have the privilege of taking inclusion for granted, making sure the people they play with are not bigoted is important and relevant. If you see that as the problem, you are part of the problem.  The bar was touching the ground, yet both of you managed to crawl under it anyway. Rest assured the only bar that has dropped that low was yours, when you seek to label individuals and plant false flags for the sublime goal of garnering attention and praise for your white-knighted crusade. Misbegotten though it is, I'll endeavor to educate you on the purpose of my comment, precisely to ensure your imbecilic assumptions are cast as ash before the pyre of your ignorance. When you seek a GM, it is already hard enough. Think of it as akin to a search engine. When you then add further search parameters, such as it were, you further narrow down an already scarce resource. With the predominance prevalent in DMs becoming more and more focused upon paid services, this only exacerbates the situation further.  So, to be making requirements of a DM in order to even play with the is just foolhardy, if not making an already difficult prospect shift ever towards impossibility. Check your privilege before you make claims of bigotry and the nature of inclusion. For yours is an easy claim to make, but far harder to hold any merit when the very people you speak to and label as such you know nothing about.  Congratulations on doing as such, and finding your own folly laid bare for all to see.

Kaiser Redflame said: Tuo said: Wow, Billy and Kaiser, you are both very confused and also off-topic. For people who don't have the privilege of taking inclusion for granted, making sure the people they play with are not bigoted is important and relevant. If you see that as the problem, you are part of the problem.  The bar was touching the ground, yet both of you managed to crawl under it anyway. Rest assured the only bar that has dropped that low was yours, when you seek to label individuals and plant false flags for the sublime goal of garnering attention and praise for your white-knighted crusade. Misbegotten though it is, I'll endeavor to educate you on the purpose of my comment, precisely to ensure your imbecilic assumptions are cast as ash before the pyre of your ignorance. When you seek a GM, it is already hard enough. Think of it as akin to a search engine. When you then add further search parameters, such as it were, you further narrow down an already scarce resource. With the predominance prevalent in DMs becoming more and more focused upon paid services, this only exacerbates the situation further.  So, to be making requirements of a DM in order to even play with the is just foolhardy, if not making an already difficult prospect shift ever towards impossibility. Check your privilege before you make claims of bigotry and the nature of inclusion. For yours is an easy claim to make, but far harder to hold any merit when the very people you speak to and label as such you know nothing about.  Congratulations on doing as such, and finding your own folly laid bare for all to see. Literally the only requirements asked were "inclusive" and "collaborative". I think that's enough said.

Tuo said: Kaiser Redflame said: Tuo said: Wow, Billy and Kaiser, you are both very confused and also off-topic. For people who don't have the privilege of taking inclusion for granted, making sure the people they play with are not bigoted is important and relevant. If you see that as the problem, you are part of the problem.  The bar was touching the ground, yet both of you managed to crawl under it anyway. Rest assured the only bar that has dropped that low was yours, when you seek to label individuals and plant false flags for the sublime goal of garnering attention and praise for your white-knighted crusade. Misbegotten though it is, I'll endeavor to educate you on the purpose of my comment, precisely to ensure your imbecilic assumptions are cast as ash before the pyre of your ignorance. When you seek a GM, it is already hard enough. Think of it as akin to a search engine. When you then add further search parameters, such as it were, you further narrow down an already scarce resource. With the predominance prevalent in DMs becoming more and more focused upon paid services, this only exacerbates the situation further.  So, to be making requirements of a DM in order to even play with the is just foolhardy, if not making an already difficult prospect shift ever towards impossibility. Check your privilege before you make claims of bigotry and the nature of inclusion. For yours is an easy claim to make, but far harder to hold any merit when the very people you speak to and label as such you know nothing about.  Congratulations on doing as such, and finding your own folly laid bare for all to see. Literally the only requirements asked were "inclusive" and "collaborative". I think that's enough said. My point still stands, and your rebuttal was as aimless as the attempted alienation you so wholeheartedly sought to bestow. Best to eat the crow while it's young, and you can. Good day.

If you all are still looking for a DM feel free to message me to work out the specifics. It would likely have to be on the weekends, but I've been interested in running another game, hopefully our schedules line up!

If you are still looking for a DM message me, my availability varies a bit but would like to discuss a bit more if you are still looking

Hi there, I've been a DM for 4 years, I do homebrew campaigns that are RP heavy with Open Sandbox story. (If everyone decides they rather have a beach episode today than fight a BBEG then thats what were doing!) I'm very flexible for weekly weekday sessions. Most of my friends are  LGBTQ+ and ADHD so I'd be happy to collaborate with you. I'm so sorry to hear that this has been a barrier for you guys. There's lots of LGBTQ+ in the D&D community (who would be happy to have you), even if Roll20 doesn't reflect it. <3

Aha! you sound like just the players for my open world server™ check out our roll20 <a href="https://app.roll20.net/join/4525162/0qxpnQ" rel="nofollow">https://app.roll20.net/join/4525162/0qxpnQ</a> and join vc discord so you get to know the crew.