Trollkin said: Until one GM says X about a player, and the player says, no, wrong. Then it's a cat fight with no one able to discern what is what since it's all perception. One GM could say the guy was late all the time. The player says my girfriend was sick, the GM says "I don't care." so where does all of that fall on the spectrum? Some players won't fit some groups. Min / Max? Some love it, some loathe it. Who sets the standard of what is "Good" and "Bad" behavior? Who watches the watchers? There's also the legality of Slander, and Libel. In the US people say what they want, and you have to prove it's not true. In the UK, you have to defend every word said, and prove it true. Can this site take the cost? Leave it, that's my vote. That's called..having a discussion? If you ask a GM about a player and he tells you something, you take it as you take pretty much any other social interaction you ever have in life, a grain of salt. There is no "cat fight", it's just you, as a GM, contacting another GM. Nobody's right or wrong, there is no right or wrong, it's just two people talking about another. Billions people do that every day. As for legality..all I can say is: what? Only totally backward countries "judge" a simple private conversation between two people, even if during that discussion involves slamming a third party with bird names. Just keep it private...