You may want to try and come off friendlier or at least less antagonistically. We can't read your mind and so far you've basically demanded suggestions and acted like the person stating the above couldn't tell the obvious. We don't know your situation. If you're really desperate, suck it up and learn discord and buy a mic. Get used to voice and prepared to make some sacrifices to play a game. It's not something that is just going to be handed to you: Games are collaborative stories told by all the players and facilitated by a person who puts in a lot of time. The way you've acted so far/presented yourself does not seem conducive to getting into a game. They are basically job applications, unless you are paying for them. If you are vehemently against discord, chat programs, whatever, you're just going to limit yourself. Most Westmarches are Discord based AFAIK. Maybe find a PbP based server or look for those games specifically. I'd also try to come to them like you're trying to make friends or meet someone you respect, just in general. Makes a better first impression.