Brand new player looking to learn and in need of guidance!

Hey there. I'm absolutely brand new to ttrpg, and I'm looking for a group willing to take on a newb and show me the ropes. I'm open to try anything I guess. A little about me..... I'm 41 father of 2. Ive been a gamer pretty much my whole life, I enjoy most genres. Actually, I recently started baldurs gate 3 and I think that kind of started my itch to learn how to play the old way. I'm preferably looking for a group that plays later at night, Eastern standard time. I would need to know what I'll need to join any games, as of right now I'm just using my cell phone. I can use a second phone if needed if that helps me keep track of flow, but I don't have a PC and I don't think my kids will let me use theirs lol. My discord is Itsonlysavage..... Please feel free to reach out. And I'll just say I may seem kind of bland until I see how everything works. I'm hoping to open up some creativity in my mind. Thanks for taking the time to consider helping out a newb like my self! 

i would love to help u learn the game especially as someone who loves to give ppl tips and just understand the rules of the game but issues i see arise on my end are its very hard to play with mobile only. I've tried with ppl in the past and it can be very difficult depending on both the way the game functions and honestly will take away from the enjoyment on ur end and id hate to do that to you. (and i completly understand the whole kids wont let u use computer on both sides XD). that being said there are ways around it but more than likely 5e wouldn't really be the best to do. that said i am willing to try if u want as if ur mobile device is really good u might be able to still do so. i have a 5e game im working on that sadly isnt done and ready but wont take too much time to finish and get ready, i have a new system based on a game series i like that would prob be alot easier to run without a PC but u prob wouldnt understand fully unless u know the SMT series. and while im not the DM for it i am joining a custom system thats very interesting that the DM himself made but we are lacking players. all 3 would probably be more so after holidays truth be told though so if u would rather find something more immediate then i understand. otherwise shoot me a PM on here with ur Discord and i can send u a friend request to talk.

I'm not gonna put together a game Fridays at seven Eastern standard time Give me an im if you're looking for something different to play=