Anyone can see your userpage (and by extension, your user talk page). In fact, just like every other page on the wiki (that isn't protected), anyone can edit them, too. The user talk page doesn't even serve its function unless others can edit it. It's generally considered kinda rude to edit someone else's userpage, though, and of course, like all wiki pages, you can always go to the page history and roll back changes made to it. Anyone can see your contributions listing, as well. In fact, a link to your contributions is by default part of your signature, which you should leave (using "~~~~") on any comments you make on any talk page. However, it's just a list of each edit you've made on the wiki. Nobody else can see your preferences or watchlist.