I am a nerd who has been Dming for almost 10 years now and I honestly made this account to find players easier cause it is hard yall.
A little bit on my Dming style I will throw back just as much chaos as my players throw at me. Tho I do tend to try to make an experience that everyone is comfortable and happy with. (Do what you will with that)
I also have plenty of experience as a player and my style of playing is to normally be quiet but helpful when I do speak. (with a splash of chaos mixed in)