Experienced Keeper and Dungeon Master.
Currently running two weekly IRL games, CoC 7th Ed. and AD+D 1st Ed, which occasionally are played on R20 when players cannot convene in person. Currently running CoC bi-weekly (ie, every other week).
I place value on character development and immersion. "Player agency" is sacred; all my games are "sandbox" worlds, go where you see fit and do what you like. Actions have logical consequences, but I am never "out to get the characters". The pace of play is dependent on the situation.
Play in person is exponentially better than playing virtually. If you have never played in person in a group, try to get out and do that. However I've been able to adjust to running games here in r20, and it has been a good experience.
if interested send me a pm and we can chat!