Been playing D&D for cumulatively 16 years now. Been DMing for 4 years now. Father so game time isn't always a thing since I put family first...but scheduling is and that's what I do for games I host! Have all the books in person, and slowly building up this library as well. If I ever join a group, I never impose on the DM's word (which is law), unless they themselves ask me for input.