Yea, that's part of it. I'm just trying to get a feel for how you guys roll. If I don't fit in, I wouldn't want to waste your time and mine and leave you potentially stranded on sunday looking for another player / healer. Overall I am just to spell things out a bit as people might have quite different opions when you say "let's play some pathfinder". I enjoy a bit of lighthearted fun as much as the next guy, but I find parties where it becomes all about screwing each other over kinda tiring. Especially when it turns into "the chicago way". Ya know, "They put one of our guys in the hospital, we put two of theirs in the morgue". The child murdering thing was kinda ramping that up to 11. Or in other terms, some people might play this as the pen and paper version of Diablo, with the quest pointing you in a direction and then other 98% of the time being rolling to hit and damage. Again, probably not what I am looking for. What you describe does sound pretty close to what I had in mind, though, so that'd be all good. If I were to join I would need a bit of handholding as far as the transition from 3.5 to pathfinder is concerned, though.